GlassToyBox.com Presents: July 2008

Oral Sex Tips

Most females don't like giving their man oral sex because they might be insecure about doing it. The best tip is to never use your teeth. (Unless he's a masochist)

Here are some other tips:

Make sure your man is comfortable. This is important. If he is uncomfortable, he will not have any fun but don't forget about you. Make sure you're comfortable too. Some wine will do the trick.

Use your tongue to wet your lips. This reduces the amount of friction on the penile shaft. Start slow. Take his penis in your mouth a little at a time. Use a lot of tongue and make sure his penis is wet. Keep going until his penis is all the way in your mouth. Sometimes, you will be able to feel the head of his penis touch the back of your throat. Men love this. It also tickles your gag reflex, which is actually good because your body creates more saliva and make the experience easier and more enjoyable for both partners.

After using only your mouth for a few minutes, use your hand to stroke his shaft. Coordinate the movement of your mouth with the movement of your hand. You should be giving your man a hand job and a blow job at the same time. When you begin, make long smooth movements with your hand. As he reaches climax, make your movements shorter and more abrupt, focusing on the head of his penis.

But you know your man the best so do something completely unexpected and out of character to spice it up.

Lack of Libido...

FindArticles - Not in the mood? Young women don't want to talk about it, but a lack of sexual desire is common. Here are some surprising causes, and solutions from sexperts
Shape, May, 2004, by Holly Robinson Cookson
This is a great article that males and females should read.

How to Make Eye Contact

Step1
Open your eyes till they’re only 75% open. You want to look like you’re looking lovingly at her, not mentally willing her to undress in front of you! On the other hand, having your eyes open too slightly will make her think you’re probably sleepy and just about to doze off. 75% is the look you want to achieve. Eye contact at this rate will be the ‘come hither’ look you see most often in the movies.
Step2
During eye contact, lower your hear slightly. This ‘look’ or ‘pose’ conveys that you’re sexually interested in her. Tilting your head upwards is a sign that you’re looking down or belittling her and she won’t like that. Tilting your head to low gives the impression that you’re not self-confident and she won’t like that either. So lower your head just a little for maximum sexual attraction effect.
Step3
When making eye contact, don’t blink a lot. But if you must, try to blink slowly. Blinking too much means you’re nervous, or worse, she may think you have an eye muscle disorder, and that’s not really sexy is it?
Step4
And here’s our last eye contact sexual attraction tip: absolutely do not break eye contact until she initiates the break! Three things here: one, subconsciously, she’ll get the impression that you’re a man who likes to be in control and so this will make her think that you’re The Man; two, maintaining sexual contact means you are REALLY into her; and three, long, hard, and deep eye contact conveys a certain ‘dark side’ about you. For some reason, many women love that.

Pregnancy & Sex

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Almost every tabloid is saying Ashlee Simpson and Pete Wentz got married because she’s pregnant, which is probably true cause who has a honeymoon in a basement? But that’s a completely different subject. WE are practicing to have a baby but sometimes for the fortunate ones, they get pregnant. Your life is going to change but you don't have to change your sex life completely. (You just have to put your Glass Toy Box stash away for a little while.)

We are spicy people but don’t worry your baby won’t feel anything or come out completely traumatized. You have your whole lifetime to traumatize them. Just kidding…

If the pregnancy is normal, there is no way that you can hurt your baby. In the early stages, your embryo is firmly implanted in the menstrual lining of the uterus. Normal intercourse is safe and harmless. For the first three months, doctors recommend "normal" sex – the hot animal sex should be on hold. If you have a history of miscarriage, also called spontaneous accidental abortion, or if there is any "spotting", or bleeding, then you should abstain from sexual intercourse or orgasm for the first three months. However, this doesn't mean you cannot pleasure your partner.
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After three months in a higher risk pregnancy, you can have subdued sex until the last three months then no sex, because an orgasm with uterine contractions might trigger premature labor.

In a normal pregnancy, sex will not harm the baby so get your dildos out. But in the end, we urge you to talk to your doctor & your partner. Congratulations!

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Bridge the communication

Bridge the communication gap with your lover.

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Here are some hopefully helpful tips:

1. Let your partner know how you feel, e.g., "I am really hurt and confused that you haven't wanted to make love for years." It's important not to attack your lover and to use "I statements" such as, “I miss having sex with you.” You cannot be faulted for how you feel, and expressing yourself this way is likely to get a more positive reaction than something like, "What's wrong with you? You never want to have sex."

2. Don't make assumptions, which close off an open discussion and can cause your partner to clam up. Avoid questions that only invite a yes/no response. For example, say, "I was hoping we could talk about why we're not having sex anymore," instead of, "Are you not interested in sex because I no longer attract you?"

3. Pick a time when you can focus on just the two of you. Don't have the conversation when you're doing another task. Plan a time when you can create a private space to talk, and make it a communal experience, e.g., over a cup of tea. The more natural you can make the conversation, the less threatening it will be.

4. Do not accuse or blame your partner for the problem. Instead, communicate that you want to work on your problems as a team effort.

5. Pay attention to your own and your partner’s body language. A great deal of what you're saying isn't coming from your mouth, but from your stance, how you’re holding your arms, and your facial expressions. Do you appear defensive? Uncomfortable? Does your partner? Attention to body language will help you to gauge how the conversation is going.

6. Ask for suggestions on how to make things better, rather than telling your partner how it should be done. People are much more likely to act on what they see being possible vs. what someone dictates to them, especially in an intimate relationship. You, too, should also give suggestions, but they should come across as just that - suggestions.